Don't use children as your sheild's!!

This indeed is a difficult subject to address. Being a mother, or a parent; as some parents will boost at being perfect at the game , others have struggled through no fault of theirs' to make ends meet for themselves and their loved ones. Money would obviously make parenting an easier task, whilst the lack of it would mean the opposite.But that as it may be, money may not result in happiness. Some law income families have made it with determination. They have learnt to be happy whilst facing poverty- which is called living in the 'now'. We don't chose our families but are fortunate indeed to chose our spouses and or partners. Sometimes we hear of women that are in terrible relationships of financial, economic, physical abuse and they say they can't leave for the sake of the children? Hence they try to stick around, not because they are happy but because they are afraid. Indeed if one eliminates fear, one can achieve anything. The government in some cases recognizes the plight of women in such situations such that they create laws and awareness about domestic violence and offer some short term relief to the victims thereafter? It is thus the uncertainty that surrounds such a female that causes one to stick around in an unhappy relationship, for their own sake in terms of dependence and that of their children? When indeed it is in actual fact the fear of failure, slander, ridicule and the unknown that makes women in such situations continue to take more abuse than they should. The question one should pose is taking the girl child to school enough to curb this escalating and disturbing problem? How does one know when enough is enough. We have sadly a long list of people who waited to long, or were attacked whilst trying to take action against the perpetrator and yet their are those silent voices, sad smiles and hidden cries that should make society realize that more needs to be done in creating a morally up write society were such abuse will be a thing of the past, where the rule of law will come into play to halt halt this surge. The book distorted view does not deal with domestic violence but indeed some women due to their status in society would rather hide their pain than talk about it. In a few weeks time we will give you a wonderful preview of one of the characters 'Debby Candice' on realizing a secrete she never suspected exited...not in a life time. A beautiful, collective well mannered women whose been loyal to the word of God discovers a secrete, will how whole world come tumbling down or does she have the will to put of the destruction that have lead other's behind bars. Where does it hurt and how much. Is monogamy normal? Perhaps that's the question.